Sometimes, the best time to find yourself is when you’re lost at sea. The waves are crashing down on you. The compass refuses to point north, but you no exactly where you are. You are nowhere, and you need to make the most of it, or change it.
Either way, you’re going to have to make a decision. Neither is good nor bad. It is only your desired outcome that will be positive or negative.
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